Kidz

Posted by VonDign 4/22/09 0 opinions

As i get to know certain females i get this question in one form or another:

How do you feel about kids?
Do you like kids?

Depending on how i feel i will answer truthfully or not but most of the time I tell em what i feel. This chick i'm talking to Pharren is her name she asked me how much kids i want and i told her ONE, UNO, UN...

She was like "What! i want at least five kids"

I was like "ohhh wow, thats wassup" but inside my head i was a bit more cynical. In times like these having kids is baggage. I'm just being honest, if you have five kids what can you do other than take care of em. One homegirl i messed with was 20 and she has three kids, in my head im like, your life is over...well not really cuz if she had them NOW as she grows so will they and once they are 18-20 she did the mother thing and she can focus on her. [Philly is notorious for single, young mothers, i swear to the clouds]. I feel like her situation can be looked at in a negative and a positive light but u have to look for it. I want one kid because i need flexibility in my life at all times. I don't want nothing in stone [except my wife of course], if i wanna pack my family and move to paris i can do that with one kid and it will be easier. I can be a better provider for the family if we have one kid cuz the economy will never be the same [even after the depression]. And i dont have to fork over sooo much cash for child care n isht. I want a new whip boom, i want to buy a house i can. Kids can change ones life, i don't want my vision of the future to be changed at least not by much.

Another reason i dont have condomless sex, Baby Mama drama aint the life for me; NOT AT ALL. I'm hearing stories from blogs and other forms of storytelling {W.O.M}. I like life simple, i only have to worry (and fund) my own damn self.

ehh


thats all

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