Showing posts with label Words of Wisdom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Words of Wisdom. Show all posts

Iunno just read the shit

Posted by VonDign 8/5/09 0 opinions

"Shy men and ugly women have the hardest time of all in this world."



I saw this as a status message on one of my associates and I have to admit when i seen it it was under a different light than all the other statuses ( it basically was socially conscious and thought provoking making it different than the usual little quips people like to share). The social outcasts in society (lol) are usually one of the two if not both. When i first saw the two types of people who have a hard time it dawned on me....yess!

A closed mouth don't get fed Famous saying...and God help you if you are an ugly girl, 'course too pretty is also your doom, 'cause everyone harbors a secret hatred for the prettiest girl in the room. -Ani Difranco

Each person has a hard time socially cuz of the expectations of the opposing gender. Women want a confident, alpha male cat and if you don't fit the bill then your social life is ass, no doubt about it. Now the one flaw in this is that ugly girls still get dick/companionship. If you a white ugly chick chances are you in the bottom of the barrel, NO white dude would wanna fuck with you (niggas will...SMFH) but if you a black ugly chick you still have a chance cuz niggas is thirsty...i digress most niggas is thirsty but theres a chance that you got something about you, either you fuck good or you cool as shit and that makes up for the physical to a point cuz no one would wanna be seen with you, specially if you dealing with a pseudo man who cares what other niggas think.

Back to the lecture at hand...

Each person has a hard time socially cuz of the expectations of the opposing gender. Women want a confident, alpha male cat and if you don't fit the bill then your social life is ass. And for the most part, women, if you ugly then your chances of having a hard time when it comes to males is great.

A shy man is worse than an ugly man??..... i dont get it but history has shown that it applies to the real world... Women love confidence, having money doesnt hurt either [having money helps boost confidence] (Dennis Rodman, Forrest Whitaker, Jay-z LoL). Ive been in both sides of this spectrum. Madda fact its one of the changes Ive made in my life time. At some point in life i realized that one whos mouth is shut evokes nothing not jealousy, nor lust, nor anger...just indifference and if your so enveloped by the cloud that is indifference no one is gonna see you [specially not the chick you feeling].

So one day i started letting more out i think it was 2-3 years ago so its been recent. I still keep my tact and my manners cuz i still got sense but using words hasn't been an issue. I was a shy child and a shy teenager i was a boy of few words and in general that's all well and good. But i didn't speak on what mattered that's when having my mouth shut hurt. Life was insipid and filled with lament and regret. So at a certain point changing that part of my life became necessary and I'm glad i did.

Strength doesn't lie in being stubborn...shiet a butterfly became fly by changing...

being adaptable shows strength too, s0 even though sometimes when it seems like you've been dealt a bad hand whether it be through demeanor or physical qualities there's always a way past the barriers laid out before you not to be corny or nothin but the bulldozer lies within ( that def was corny)

Now fuck off

Words of Wisdom

Posted by VonDign 4/24/09 0 opinions

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Good morning. The best way to disconnect from wrong people is to become obsessed with doing the right thing! When your obsession is to do the right thing, wrong people will find you unbearable. Believe me that overweight, lazy, unfocused people will not follow you to the gym! Nor do those up to no good,do they reeeaaaally wanna tag along for the ride to the Synagogue, the Mosque or the Bishop TD Jakes Mega fest!? Lol! (Stay focused!)

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Defenitely not mad i signed up for that, Rev Run spits wisdom....either that or he knows where to find wise words
Ive never looked at it that way and it is probably true. a "do gooder's" lifestyle is kryptonite to a "bad person" they simply aint having it. I just thought it was worth keeping here....

-D.Veezzy