COGNI.VOL...

Why is it that people, more specifically women, habitually and routinely fail to show their strength??

A woman can be in a relationship with someone and revert to what appears to be toddler like behavior. They all of a sudden rest on their laurels and just stop trying to be emotionally self sufficient. Just cuz u talking to someone or are in a relationship with someone doesn't mean you get to start being emo child.

"Oh my day is bad... fuck what you're currently doing and listen to me whine about shit."

"I need a hug, come to the opposite end of town and give it to me...never mind that we were within 5 minutes of each other an hour ago and I'm coming at you with this now."

"Oh no you aren't heeding my requests at the time it was requested even though you got shit to do.. this is a major indication of a character flaw you possess."

"I need you."

Or

"#him"

"#him is everything right now"

"I don't know what id do without #him"

Yadda yadda, u get the picture.

Then when things eventually dissolve and y'all break up NOW she wanna show strength, now she wants to be Ms independent, now she wants to grow up and have an emotional backbone.

"Team single"

"Fuck Nigs get Money"

"Can't raise a man"

"Nigs ain't shit"

"Guys are all dogs"

Posting blog posts about how men ain't shit and that they are immature/whatever!!!

Where was that attitude  when y'all were together. Where was that strength when you were arguing with that man over some menial bull s*** . When did you become a 20 something year old again?? Look who's back.

I may be insensitive but yeah the hypocrisy is staggering. Its retarded. if you are a strong woman show that s*** all the time . Not just when it's convenient or when you're hurt or when you're not with somebody. Because it's that strength that probably brought a man to you. No one wants an emotional ball and chain. Especially a person like myself who values his own strength and the strength he sees in others.

Like yo....my ideal chick is Claire Underwood from House of Cards. Not because she's white, but because she's in touch with her emotions but she does not let them rule her. She doesn't fight with Frank over bullshit and she is objective oriented. Team player. Frank doesn't have to carry her.

Hmmm....

We can all dream tho.